He never reported that abuse or named the woman involved.īoth men carried a deep shame for years, worried that police and society wouldn’t believe that they had been abused by women.īoth men believe this is why males don’t come forward to report it. Ken Clearwater was 12 years old when he said he was sexually violated by a woman and asked to do things he could never comprehend and was left scarred, ashamed and broken. AARON Gilmore was not even a teenager when he was sexually abused by a family friend who he regarded as a second mother.īut when he reported it to police years later they told him they couldn’t see what crime had taken place.
